It's not healthy...

lammy · Post by **lammy** » Thu Jul 14, 2005 2:56 am

for me too keep wanting to have something happend and will never happen-I can't keep lying to myself, it is not healthy for me....I just want to tell everyone that my wishing to meet Jim has fade away, I have to live my life and let it go.....I can't stress hard enough how I admire him and respect him but that is as far as I want to take it from now on.

I do not know how you guys can keep wanting to meet him, I mean how long will you go on until you go crazy-I can't do it any more-it was fun while it lasted....

I hope you guys don't hate me for this-

Filomena · Post by **Filomena** » Thu Jul 14, 2005 3:24 am

You have to do whatever feels right for you, Lammy.

If it's not fun anymore, then you definitely need a break.

I think for the most part, we just need to talk about his dimples and how cute he looks when he doesn't shave.

But that's it! no more fantasies for me either!

(you hear that Jimmy? where are you, by the way???? just curious...)

fluffy · Post by **fluffy** » Thu Jul 14, 2005 4:38 am

that's why i started up the JCAA THREAD...............LOL...to break the habit!!...............lol

fluffy

mav · Post by **mav** » Thu Jul 14, 2005 3:17 pm

lammy - nobody would dislike you for not continuing on here! Have fun wherever whatever you do, and drop in sometimes ......U sure you want to give up on this fine human specimen? (jusk j/k)

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thecablegal · Post by **thecablegal** » Thu Jul 14, 2005 3:23 pm

I went through about a year of heartbreak because I knew I wouldn't ever meet Jim. It's horrible, so I know how you feel. I'm going through the same thing again, but this time with a real life person, I see everyday, but that's kind of a different story, but it's still a horrible feeling.

Do you mean you are leaving the site? Or just realising the truth?? Whatever, I respect your decision!

Clemmy · Post by **Clemmy** » Thu Jul 14, 2005 6:20 pm

Cherishing a fantasy that one day we will meet the guy is not bad... it is actually good to have a dream, but making the dream a form of long-lasting escapism is not healthy... so it is good to know when to give it up, gain perspective and face reality.

For me, as Filo said, just talking about the man's dimples and how cute he looks when he doesn't shave seems good enough to escape from daily problems a litte bit. Actually, we do talk about reality here as well.

So Lammy, a girl has to do what a girl has to do... and what makes you happier...

jimliker · Post by **jimliker** » Thu Jul 14, 2005 8:11 pm

i also feel sad for the same reason Lammy. So i have left everything to GOd

lammy · Post by **lammy** » Fri Jul 15, 2005 4:43 am

I'm not leaving, just not having dreams or fantasies about meeting him that is all...I had to get this out of my chest.

I onced had a crush on another star until he got married and then it left the bulding-LOL!!

Conor · Post by **Conor** » Fri Jul 15, 2005 11:01 pm

i dont care.

i know ill at least see him in person considering my mom said she may take all the hassale to drive me 34 hours to see fun with dick and jane premiere.

YAYYY!

not positive though

i will meet him at least once.

thecablegal · Post by **thecablegal** » Fri Jul 15, 2005 11:43 pm

There is no guarantee that you will ever meet him, hence the point of this thread...

lammy · Post by **lammy** » Sat Jul 16, 2005 5:33 am

Thanx..that is the point of this thread but Jimacdcarrey shouldn't take it so personal.

Maybe he will get lucky and meet Jim-

Conor · Post by **Conor** » Sat Jul 16, 2005 10:09 pm

thecablegal wrote:There is no guarantee that you will ever meet him, hence the point of this thread...

i think ive always noticed it and i wanna say it now though.

thecablegal always looks at the bad side of things. never the good.

thecablegal · Post by **thecablegal** » Sat Jul 16, 2005 11:40 pm

No I don't, and how dare you.

I am a very realistic person. You cannot say to me that you are 100% sure that you will ever meet Jim. Can you?

You don't know me at all, so you can't make judgements on me from that. You've always buggeed me with your insulting, rude and irritating posts, hence the fact that I disagree with you. You are not realistic. Come back in 6 years, and you'll be the same.
You are 12, and have a lot to learn. When i was 12, I was convinced it was THAT easy to meet Jim. Now I have grown up, I realise it isn't...

lammy · Post by **lammy** » Sun Jul 17, 2005 5:52 am

Everyone can dream about meeting Jim..I am not stoping anyone...specialy Jimacdcarrey-

cotton · Post by **cotton** » Sun Jul 17, 2005 6:51 am

thecablegal always looks at the bad side of things. never the good.

Nah I have talked to her on MSN she is cool.